Personalized Bloomers
Posted on Monday, March 23rd, 2009 at 7:08 pm
10 Bloomers That Weaken Your Chances For Getting Your Ex Back
Did you know that most people make the maximum number of critical mistakes in the first 72 hours of a breakup? Charged with emotions, and desperate for getting your ex back, you too could have made one or more of the mistakes listed below. However there is no reason to feel hopeless. If you are thinking of ways of getting your ex back, remain calm and take charge of your emotions. Remember to avoid these 10 most common bloomers:
1. Though losing temper might seem the most obvious outcome after a breakup, refrain from using foul language or getting physically abusive with your ex. Harsh and hurtful words are like arrows – when it leaves your mouth, there is no way you can bring them back. Your ex would never forget or forgive the physical and emotion pain you are causing him or her.
2. While getting your ex back, never go overboard with your promises. Never say that you would ‘change’ to make things better this time around. Show your intentions to change in action rather than in words.
3. Never try to use any logic while trying getting your ex back. When someone is emotionally charged the last thing that works is logic. There is plenty of time later, to explain things in a rational manner. Right now, stay calm.
4. Never beg or plead with your ex to come back or pardon you. In stead of thinking of you as a sincere and apologetic person, your ex would think of you as a pitiable, irritating and nagging person. This can never increase your chances of getting your ex back.
5. By repeatedly giving your ex assurances that you have undying love for him or her is not going to change his or her mind about leaving you. The decision has already been made based on his or her own perception about you and your inadequacies.
6. Injecting ‘guilt’ in your ex would never work for getting your ex back? You might succeed in getting your ex back for a short while but the decision would invariably be for a very short time. The willingness to get back to you should come from within – no amount of external pressure would work.
7. It is also not wise to take the sympathy route. If you appear and behave as if you are overwhelmed by depression, all that you would receive is lots of pity. No love can ever survive the onslaught or prevalence of pity. It is usually viewed as emotional blackmailing.
8. You cannot woo your ex back with gifts and flowers as these would appear as ‘manipulative’ tricks to win back his or her affection. Right now his or her mind is hardened and these are very weak attempts to soften up the issue.
9. Never make the mistake of involving common friends or his or her family in your breakup. Not only would these complicate matters but may also result in further miscommunication and misunderstandings.
10. Finally, never exert any pressure or compulsion for getting your ex back. Let the will to come back come about as naturally and spontaneously as possible. Remember if there was and is love and respect between the two of you, good sense should dawn sooner than later.
About the Author
Do you think you need a miracle to get your ex back? Actually, it isn’t as impossible as you might think but how you approach the situation will determine your fate. It is easy to become your own worst enemy when you put too much pressure on yourself and make desperate attempts to reunite with your ex. CLICK HERE to learn how you can get your ex back in your life and very much in love with you again.
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